By now most people will have consumed, exchanged or read the gifts received at Christmas. Receiving gifts is not always easy. It can be humbling, embarrassing, and sometimes we cannot understand why someone would want to give us this particular thing. It doesn’t seem to us that this gift meets our needs or interests. We all have received gifts that we have never used or opened or read despite another person discerning something in us that said; ‘this is just the thing for him